In a recent United Healthcare publication I read an interesting article directed toward improving our parenting skills.  The following is a reprinted version of that information.

You're the best gift you could ever give your children.  So let them know how much you care for them with these tips:

1.   1. Show lots of love.  Hug your children often, starting when they're infants.  As they grow older, applaud their accomplishments.  Affection and praise can help you build a strong relationship and give your child a positive sense of self-worth.

2.   2. Set a good example.  Little eyes see all you do, from how you  treat  one another to how you handle life's problems.

3.   3. Interact.  Spending time together shows kids they're important.  Occasionally, that might mean giving up some of your activities.  Just remember the value  of  spending time with your kids.  Childhood happens only once--there are no do-overs.

4.   4. Earn the right to be heard.  Talk with your children--and not just when they've done something wrong.  Begin when they're young, and do so often.  Really listen, too.  This helps build trust, which will encourage your kids to listen when you offer guidance as they grow older.

5.   5. Discipline with love.  The right kind of discipline helps children learn limits.  Teach your kids that actions have consequences.  Reward good behavior.  When they don't do things as you'd expect, control your emotions.  Never yell or hit.

6.   6. Be a teacher.  Look for ways to help children learn life lessons.  For example, you can encourage young children to dress themselves or pick up toys.  This helps them become self-sufficient.  Talk with older kids about alcohol, drugs and peer pressure.  Gradually give them chances to make decisions.  This helps prepare them for adulthood.

No parent is perfect.  Just keep working at being the best you can be.